Taking ownership
One thing that jumps out from Amy Wilson’s story is that she takes full responsibility for her actions and the consequences.
There is none of that ‘well, you just don’t understand the pressure I was under’, or ‘I had to do it’, or our culture’s favorite ‘it’s mommy and daddy’s fault’.
Instead, what happened is fully her fault.
Consider her comments, which I extracted from the article. I feel free to quote her extensively since I have permission to reprint her article.
Look at the strong statement early in the article: …